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>>18531224
It is called donations for a reason. The best you can do is recommend the book to others and tell em where to find it. Others may give them the suggested DONATION.

Honestly there's no problem here and you shouldn't feel bad.

>>18531241
It's just that I could easily give 20-50. But then I feel bad for maybe giving too low for a work like this.
I believe that there is no copyright or rights for the work because it is old too. Another reason why it might be free to people interested.

Well obviously they're helping you with something very personally important, so yes, donate a fair amount.

If you're poor, obviously don't donate 150, but if it's no big deal then go ahead.

Its real shit

Don't do it whilst peeing do it when you have an erection

Source: I can stop myself cunning by tensing my dick up, just from doing kegels when masturbating through the years

I started doing kegels very often throughout the day a couple months ago and by the third day I learnt what a throbbing erection was

>>18531225
Well I am not masturbating at all nowadays as I really feel like I need the 'nofap' reset. I don't believe in all the superpower crap they spew out but I used to masturbate like 5 times a day and my dick is kinda fucked.

Hopefully in a week or two I start having natural erections again so I can do kegels while erect.

>>18531253
Cool, will keep doing them. Isn't it harmful if I overdo them somehow?

to be clear yes I can hide a boner I just want to know if anyone has their own trick or something lol

flex your calves

>>18531257
har har har

>>18531171

how big a gap are we talking here? where do you live and where does he live?

>>18531171
Make something.

>>18531176
Balkans/Switzerland

>>18530934
>Guy randomly approaches you out of nowhere
>Says "Hi, what's your name?"

Where did such a plan get conceived, op? It's not just awkward, it's forced, and nothing forced ends in a relationship in any snse of the word. You'd be luckier just trying to hit it off from a natural conversation starter, like:

>"Where were you when moot was kill?"

>>18530956
This

>>18530934
It is VERY difficult to pull off a cold approach. Even the smoothest operators can very rarely manage it.

You have to have some excuse for talking. That's why girls in your class/hall/friendgroup are the best bets. You can catch a girl in your class before or after class and ask "Did you get the detail of that assignment? I didn't write it down" or something like that. You can get in the food line behind a girl and comment on the food. It's that first exchange, however minor, that's the hard part. After that you can introduce yourself, get her name, and go from there.

>>18530926
he pulls all this on male coworkers too, except he says weird shit like they're 'lucky to have their wives', and they better treat them right.

At the xmas party, one coworker told him that he would love to treat his wife 'right', but he has to keep her self-worth low so she doesn't leave. He didn't get the joke. He mentioned it to me later that night and was like "dude Paul is SO fucked up man I feel bad for his wife. I wouldn't be like that"

Watching that exchange was gold.

He might be a robot. You're fucked if that's the case.

>>18530952
This

>>18530904
Fruit market?

>>18530904
depends what you want
a dating site is good if you want someone who wants a relationship
if it's a prom date or something time sensitive you should take your charms and to the place where the invited group normaly comes together (canteen, workfloor), the bar, market and/or barista

>>18530904

The Abortion Clinic.

>>18530876
Fill your time with something else, instead of constantly thinking about the past.

Get a job if you don't have one.

>>18530876
Think about the future or happy stuff. That's all you literally have to do.

>>18530876
It depends on the regret, in general though make amends if the mistake hurt someone and move forward. If the regret only fucked yourself then focus on other things.

You angle your head so your noses don't get in each other's way. You kiss however you like, there's no walkthrough for it. It's chemistry, you just have to work with you're partner. If she is ravenous, biting your lips and using her tongue, then match her. Start slow and soft, don't eat her face. With your hands, put them on her neck or waist gently if it's a first kiss. If you are more comfortable a couple handfuls of ass is good.

>>18530853

the way I do it and I got very good reviews from girls, is take your time and focus on lips. Go slow kiss and dont rush. Lips motherfucker! Use 4 lips 2 tongue 1 bite in these proportions Just dont chew gentle bite so she do not bleed. Do it slow and gently but your no1 focus is lips. They will follow and do the same and they will love it.

Your main focus is to put as much bloodflow in her lips.

Thats all, the rest is practice.

Thanks! What do the tongues do exactly though? Just touch each other?

You mean migrating and living there for good? I'd check how easy it is to get a job, income levels, how inequal it is ect. you know useful data to have a rough guess how well it'll go for you.

>>18530931
if someone migrates to eastern europe he obviously isnt doing it for economic opportunity and for what regular people do it

>>18530776
You do realize that you can't just decide to move and live somewhere else right?

You need to get a fitting visa - and especially when you need a work visa you might not even be able to move to one of the two countries.

Tell your father first to cut that shit. If he doesn't, tell your mother.

You don't sound like you're 100% sure he is actually cheating. Talk to your Dad and ask him about it.

If he confesses, urge him to stop immediately.

Whatever you do, DO NOT tell your Mom. If she is going to find out about it, it HAS to come from your Dad. If he is cheating, and you really want your Mom to know about it, just tell your Dad he has to tell her or you will.

If you go behind his back and tell her about his infedility, their marriage will be over and your Dad will resent you. I'm guessing that isn't what you want.

>>18530807
I indeed do not know for sure but there are some clues lately.

The biggest i've found today.
He has a small wallet he usually only takes with him when he goes to his job and it had a condom in it.

Kinda weird that i know this but my parents don't use condoms as my mother has become infertile.

look up female makeup tutorials

Just tweeze them. It's what I do. Sure it's going to rough the first time but then afterwards it's just occasional maintenance

>>18530718
This
Sometimes I tweeze all facial hair, it feels so nice not to shave for 2 weeks at all

>Oneitis
Ignore her, work out, work on your confidence, take the red pill (don't overdose), meet more women, find another good one who likes you more, problem solved.

>>18530753
Makes sense, have a nice day.

>>18530656
Take a break from her to get over your infatuation. Try to meet someone else. After you've calmed down a bit you can go back to being her friend if you want.

visit her in person, properly. a phone call is thoughtful, but not going to cut it in the long term, either for you or for her.

go see her, talk about he life, her family, your ancestors, etc......

>>18530487
Tell her about your day - you can't imagine how much the little things will fascinate her.

Ask her about her life - you can't imagine how much any stories she tells you will matter to you.

>>18530487
Anon I had the same thing happen 3 months back. My grandma had cancer from smoking cigarettes and beat cancer but died due to heart failure and passed on.

Ask about Politics, life, movies, what her time was like back then.

If any others read this try to spend some time with your grandparents and get to know them.

All right bud. Heres the trick. Don't enjoy the sex until the end.

When you fuck her, go into a trance, basically. Think about random shit, "I should rewatch Taxi Driver. It's been a while. What are my top 10 favorite albums of all time? Do I have to do anything tomorrow?" Slow down if things get too close.

In case of emergency pull out and tell her to switch positions. During the switch think of your grandma naked. Then once you put it back in go back to the trance.

Essentially, split sex into a few parts. Part 1 is foreplay and releasing chemicals in her head that make her go insane with pleasure and anticipation. Then there's the trance. This is the bulk of the sex, lasting upwards to 40 minutes. The there's the prize at the end, where you fuck her as hard and fast as you can, going for the gold, exiting the trance and finishing the session.

I've been doing this for years. I basically decide when we should stop having sex. I can go for a quickie in 1 minute or I can last for 4 hours.

Same problem here OP.

Heard kegals help.

>>18530453
1-become a master of prelims. women don't care as much for penetration as we do. It is important, but not as much as for us
2-practice edging
3-switch posistions
4-ask her to help you. she should stop stimulating you, push you back, so on. it's fun.