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I like to analyze hard data in my free time, anything from cars, hardware, investiments, guns, dark souls builds... What career should I pursue?
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Pls help I don't know what to do
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>>18701315
accounting. those spreadsheets and data will go miles

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I'm looking for a girl from Finland that I used to talk to on Kik. You'd be 19-20 now.

You used to send pictures of your little finger as a joke. Had very angular, but pretty eyes. We talked all the time.

I was an American guy with blonde hair, blue eyes.

One of your Kik ID's was Lumeton. I was Meierboy.

If you're still around I'd love to hear from you.
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>>18701228
you could make a new account, message her and make sure she hasn't blocked you for whatever reason.
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>>18701322

Not a bad idea, thanks.

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Hey bros,

Got invited to a holiday to Vietnam in january and scored myself a cutie mctootie.

I've been gyming every alternate day for about 8 months and I've gained 10 kg. I'm the fattest I've ever been in my life and my friends are all ripped with muscle at the moment. I know on the trip I'll be severely bullied for my weight and i know it's a matter of time before my gf finds a better bf (she's younger)

Should I cancel the lads trip and break up with my gf and focus on getting healthy?
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What is your bf%

if high, yes. if not that high, then no.
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>>18701225
No, in fact eating the food in VN may help you drop all that weight.

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First relationship, it has been long distance for over a year now. Is physical/sexual when we are together.
We've been together for a long time so breaking up isn't what either of us want.

My question is, what is the etiquette for masturbating while in a relationship? It's hard to do it on Skype and I find it easier to just do it on my own time.
Is it possible to masturbate to other people or anime and it not be an unfaithfulness thing? I don't want to sleep with anyone else, just to switch things up now and then when I need to rub one out.
I'm not looking for license to be unfaithful emotionally, I just want to know what is normal boundaries for a healthy relationship.
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>>18701202
It's normal. If your significant other has a problem with it, there are some deeper issues on his/her part.
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>>18701202
Every person has different boundaries. Some people aren't comfortable with their partners masturbating to anything or anyone besides them, and some people are comfortable with their partners straight up fucking other people. Only way to find out what the boundaries for your relationship are, is to talk to your partner about what they're okay with, and talk about what you're okay with.
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>>18701206
“The fact that an opinion has been widely held is no evidence whatever that it is not utterly absurd; indeed in view of the silliness of the majority of mankind, a widely spread belief is more likely to be foolish than sensible.”


This is a reply to "everyone does it so it's normal"

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Howdy /adv/.
Just started college majoring in civil engineering but have been having thoughts about switching over to mechanical. I've heard recently that civil engineering is rather dull and the job market is very tough. However, I've also heard a mechanical engineering degree is a lot more broad and can help you expand into many different careers. Is this true?
Any engineers on here that can give me your thoughts or experiences on this?
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>>18701200
My cousin's a (new-ish) civil engineer.

From what he tells me, his job largely consists of doing really boring calculations (water drainage and shit) and then handing it off to his immediate superior.

Also, your thumbnail looks like Tracer's bum.
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>>18701200
Engineer here. I feel like I know a lot of engineers that just end up in tech from other engineering (like material science engineering major to machine learning data scientist) The key is to hire into a larger company that has a lot of different projects and learn on the job but first show that you are smart and able to learn a lot.

IN GOD I SWEAR I KILL MYSELF RIGHT NOW IF YOU DONT GIVE ME A GOOD REASON TO STOP
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>>18701125
Do it. You need to find the reason to live on your own.
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>>18701136
GODDAM THANKYOU VRY MUCH I THINK I AM HAPPY NOW
THIS BOARD IS WORKING
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Are you in crisis? Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at +1 (800) 273-8255.

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I'm currently facing a curious dilemma. I'm male, young, and pretty much your average /fit/izen, and I'm also straight.

Over the last three or four years I've been approached mainly by men however. Over the course of this time I've changed drastically from a twink dyel, and I'm still mainly approached by men. They come in all shapes and sizes and don't seem to fit into any specific criteria (I'd think they were ordinary dudes like me were they not trying to fuck me) and I don't think I 'look gay' or whatever either. Women rarely ever do it, though. I don't frequent gay bars, I don't have grindr installed, I don't wave dildos around and I can't imagine why anyone would think that I'm gay-er than the next average joe, but I don't see my buddies being approached as often by men. Do gay men have lower standards than women? If not, why the fuck does this happen? Is this normal for straight dudes at all?

>inb4 turn gay

I have unironically considered this, but after thoughtful consultation with my dick we have concluded that I'm 100% straigth, no exceptions.
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These dudes are just people man.
Like, have you ever approached a girl? It's the same thing for gay dudes. I mean, someone has to be the instigator, right?
And how else are they gonna find out if you're gay or not?
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>>18701099
Women tend to be the ones asked out, rather than do the asking. Gay men are still men, they tend to do the asking
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>>18701112
>>18701128
I know, but why do I get absurd amounts of attention from gay men and from none to very little attention from women?

Is this the same thing for every other dude out there?

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I have a general feeling of inadequacy and inferiority when I don't think I should.

For example, I've been to parties, drank and done drugs, have slept with ~9 women, one of them what I'd consider a 10/10. Yet on friday and saturday nights I feel like a loser when I'm on my basement on the computer working away at my career, like everyone is living it up to the fullest and I'm a loser.

My career is going pretty well, according to statistics I'm far better off financially then other people my age (26), yet I feel like I haven't accomplished enough.

I'm tall, decent looking, and am currently working hard to get as fit as possible (average build currently), yet I feel like a cave troll.

I think a lot of this stems from getting dumped by my gf. I have no reason to believe that she's sleeping around or doing drugs (which she'd have every right to do, it's her life), but I get the feeling that while I'm working to better my life that's what she's doing on the other side of the planet. I feel like a loser.

I get the idea that everyone everywhere all the time are having drug fueled orgies at raves living the fullest lives while I'm sitting around like a loser, even though I imagine spending most my time working on my career and dreams is a good thing.

I dunno. Feels terrible. Please help.
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>>18701079
Just wait a couple of months and you'll get over her.
Also there's more to life than parties, sex, and drugs.
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>>18701079
Make the next time you have sex a threesome.
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>>18701079
what's your career? is it something where if you continue to grind like this for another year or two you'll be making bank without working weekends? If so I'd say do that, continue to focus on yourself and put money away then when you're ~28 you can live the life you want while everyone else still wageslaves away. if you have good money, are in shape and are a cool guy you can still bang hot, young women into your thirties.

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Why do you feel empty self hate when you start thinking about other people after a breakup ?

I broke up with my BF of 5 years, it's been a month and I'm strating to find interest in other guys again. But I feel like i'm undeserving of a new relationship, empty, and pathetic. I'm already experiencing the fluffy feeling of an innocent crush yet somehow I feel disgusted by it.

How do you cope with the feeling ? Is it maybe too soon for me to start looking for someone new ?
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>''you don't think you deserve me?'' Why is that?
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I think you should give yourself more time. Crushes are ok to have it's normal but if it's only been a month then I don't see the harm a little more time would be.

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What the hell is it with me and constant exhaustion?

>been feeling too tired to do most things since 2003
>just so tired that I lose interest and motivation for most thing I enjoy
>changes in diet never seem to have any noticeable effects
>exercising doesn't make me any more or less tired
>socialising or reclusion seem to have the same result
>just still too tired to do most things enjoyably

Eh?
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>>18701009

did you ask your doctor?
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Congrats on the depression, op.

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Anyone have any idea what this rash/reddish patch could be from? Or what I could do to take care of it?
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probqbly cancer
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Could be fungal.
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>>18700936
Seems contagious

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I need /adv/ on where to get the Hulk Hogan Pontiac Silverdome copypasta right now


you know the
>I start punching her in the face
>Atomic Leg Drop new WFF champion
>Pontiac Silverdome explodes with 80 000 Hulkamaniacs
one
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>>18700870

>tfw live somewhat close to Pontiac

That Silverdome is falling apart, brother.
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>>18700881
F

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HELP!!!
Exam day tomorow.
Time is 2:10 AM
Should i go to bed for 2:30 hours and wake up in 5 Am and then rewind my studies or should i not sleep at all?
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>>18700841
Go to sleep.

Brain which didnt get rest is like 20 IQ points less clever.
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>>18700841
Nap and study b4 class. Sleep will help your brain.

Dont fuck up next time and study before the day of bruh.

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My husband is annoying me.

I gave up my career to be with him and he cares very little, tells me nothing and does everything that we are suppose to decide together on his own.

His mom does his bills and taxes and will not allow me to do it.

I save money by doing odd jobs and he is always making me pay for everything. Lately I noticed he is extra stingy with his money. I saved up to buy a pair of headphones for months and he decided he wanted them and took them. I found out why he has been so stingy he has friends who do stocks and has been putting all his money into stocks. I have an uncle who worked in stocks for 30 years I suggested to my husband that he go meet up with him to learn about stocks but he denied it saying "I will do it how I want".

I do not think he understands that if he loses his money that I will end up having to pay it off.
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How did you not know any of this before you got married...?
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>>18700737
That his mom pays his bills and he is stingy? He was not like that before we got married. Its like he became his dad as soon as we got married and stopped trying. For our anniversary he gave my mom money to buy me a present so that he would not have to do it. I do not even care about money the thing that worries me is his lack of effort and me having to sacrifice everything.

I am the type of person that likes home made crafts with love the best and I like to save my money. I had to hide money so that he can not take it because he burning through it like crazy lately.
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>>18700737
Don't fall for it lad. She is most likely twisting her actual situation to make her the victim so that she can justify cucking her husband

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So a very smart lady friend is having a super hard time getting into any of the schools that she applies to. She gets to the interviews and chokes up a little (who doesn't), but has been told that there were doctor's kids that did a LOT worse but got accepted instead of her.

She already does lots of volunteering for hospitals and takes classes at regular colleges, is there anything else she can do to bump up her chances?
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Unless you're there in the room with her, you really don't know how badly she's messing up. You don't know for sure that there are people who do worse and still get in. They're certainly not rejecting her for absolutely no reasons

>is there anything else she can do to bump up her chances?
Work on her interview skills, clearly.
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Any questions that are about the individual should be straight forward. It'll either be describing themselves or something factual about their qualifications. Just don't forget how to describe things.

I think there's also ethical/situational questions. I went to university with somebody who tried to bimbo their way around them instead of making reasoned decisions, that never seemed like a good idea.

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