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Diagnosis : Depression

>>18701630
Suicidal thoughts are a natural side affect of a mental state/condition.

Its a good indication somethings gone wonky in your brain.

Could be environmental (youre around shitty people, too isolated, dont do enough, not enough to be proud of, lonely, whatever)

And it could be physiological (actual chemical issue in your brain, shit diet, shit sleep, thyroid issue, vitamin deficiency, chemical exposure, maybe at work or home or smog in the city.. Whatever.. A million possible causes.)

The general consensus of psychologists (the phd doctor times no the tell.me about your dad kinds) is that you should give it time and meanwhile pay attention to your health.

Anything after 6 months is clinical, at which point a doctor should be consulted.
Again theyll be looking first for physical causes a general practitioner could find, then once all comes back green you will be referred to a mental health professional.

>>18701658
>the phd dr times

That whole sentence is typod as fuck:
"The PhD doctor kind of psychologist, not the tell me about your father kind."

>>18701618
Sounds like your experiments are paving the way for the rest of us.

>>18701618

yeah that's fine,

>>18701618
careful heating them might lose some potency.

Maybe only fridge them next time so they're not in the microwave for 5 mins

>>18701576
What do you mean when you say intimacy? Physical touch and intimacy are often different things. A hooker can touch you and fuck you, but you probably won't experience much intimacy with them, unless you're referring to sex as intimacy.

>>18701576
How are you doing socially?

Op is probably a woman, as most women need to be touched as a primal need. Go to a coffee shop

>>18701569
There probably won't be a key west next week, so get a refund if you can.

>>18701569
rebook it anon

go someplace that isn't underwater

Some people find it hard receiving affection.

I had been in an abusive relationship prior to my current GF and she was so affectionate and loving it really felt uncomfortable for me. She'd say wonderful things about me and all I could do was just kinda mumble or something in response.

Some people are just like that. Another friend of mine cant handle any affection verbally or any compliments. Just kinda awkwardly shuffles about.

Its different for different people, some people swing about and some people are consistent. On the other hand there could be something else entirely.

>>18701550
it's a her thing not a female thing. every human is different. talk to her about it again.

the most important part of any relationship is open honest communication. show her this thread if you want to, if not then just repeat what you've said as close to verbatim as you can. If she doesn't respond, gently encourage her. "In the past when I brought this up with you I feel like you weren't able to voice your opinion on the matter. Could you do that now, or is there anything else you have on your mind?"

Do you guys know your love languages? It sounds like she speaks a different love language than you, if you believe in that stuff.

>>18701596
Both our love languages are touch for primary and my second is verbal, hers is something else.

Thanks for the input man, I will take this into consideration.

>>18701546
Already further than me. I dunno pregame in your room until you're confident, and then get touchy at the party and then probably score. Not rocket science, hard part's outta the way

Just do what you'd do at a normal party, if she doesn't know anyone stay close to her but don't be overly possessive etc.

Introduce her to people, just generally get the wheels going for her to feel comfortable.

When I introduced my current gf to my friends at a party I specifically aimed to introduce her to the ones I knew were super chatty so she wouldn't have to do much work to get involved.

>>18701546
ask her, if she says yes, ditch her. partygirl is just about the biggest red flag I can imagine

it's terrible

>>18701523
you should watch it. I enjoyed it but it's pretty depression-core.

>>18701635
I have seen it. Just watched it
That's why I'm here.

Like I said, I'm feeling it hard. I'm also late 20s and cruising from dollar to dollar. Every attempt to break out fails.
I'm just so tired

Find a woman who will shove a strapon up your ass for you

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or at least try to have sex while crossdressing or something
there's definitely something unusual about sex and gender ticking in your noggin but I sure as hell can't say what

>>18701512
You're not gay or a trans. First we need to talk about your past. Have you been molested? The problem is that many molested children completely block it out of their memory and act the way you do as soon as it gets sexual. Therapy might help to find out if this is the case.

Other reasons might be an to high amount of hormones (pre and post natal) like Progestorene (if your mother used birth control ib4 or consumed water with an high amount of those dissolved in it - which is the case in most of the industrialized world due to hormones not beeing removed from tap water) or diverse plasticizers (plastic bottles leak that shit into everything, even worse if you heat them up - only drink water in glass bottles), further some pre-natal medication like Paracetamol can fuck up your brain. It can also be due to you not beeing happy with your body and too lazy/ hormonaly fucked that you thing you will be a more attractive sissy than a Chad. You won't be, trans have a 20x higher probability to off themselves.

Instead of flirting with the idea of beeing a sissy and consume even more female hormones, cut out all that shit making you more female and work against it. Get fit (it triggeres more testosteron which also will boost your libido), eat more meat (triggers test), cut out porn (boosts test and libido). You have to push yourself against your mental problems, it might not seem like the right and comfy thing but that's just your fucked up brain trying to off you. It's like with depression, rooting in bed and eating shit without leaving the house might be comfy but it only worsens it.

Also never get pegged. Even women willing to do it will no longer respect you. Even if they don't know it themselves. Believe me. I'm a switcher in the BDSM lingo and I pegged a guy I loved because he wanted it and I sometimes like to dominate him, weeks go by and I realised that I lost every bit of respect to him as I read of other women which have feelt the same way afterwards.

>>18701509
go away cicada with your phone number.

>>18701509
113

In the land of Mordor
Where shadows lie

>>18701500
Whats you're definition of "fucked up"?

>>18701500
By "fucked up porn" you mean child porn, right?

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Deep web

>>18701485
you're probably suffering from confirmation bias.

Probably a lot more tolerable if anything.

>>18701471
Get a legit job if you want to make money.

Having to watch your back for chump change isn't worth it.

>>18701471
tfw still want to try mdma one day just because of how its supposed to enhance your orgasms

>>18701503
I've never tried it that way but it does give you mandy dick aka hard to get erect during the most intense part of the high.

Its pretty amazing being around people. You're super social. Cuddling was super fun too.

>>18701422
Be unique.
Play the saxophone with your butthole.

>>18701422
start with the light versions of studio one, cubase, logic, pro tools, reaper,...

for the beginning that will be enough for you. once you get the hang of it you can either download pro versions or buy them or whatever!

>>18701422
Scavenge around torrent sites and you likely will be able to find patched DAW's that you should find suitable for your needs.

>>18701411
Don't get involved with her. You will get your hopes up and crash down twice as hard. Been there, done that.

>>18701411
This is just a woman leveraging her social connections for personal gain. If you're getting paid *well* I'd do it, but chances are, she low-balled you on money, which is why she thought of you in the first place.

If you want her money, counter her for slightly more money.

If you want her pussy, you're not gonna get it by doing this.

>>18701418
Not into getting laid as much. The pay is going to suck because her mom is broke af and needs someone to babysit so she can work harvest season.

Could be a good chance to bag her mom, but I see no real gains outside of at least getting paid. They want me to babysit because there is no one else and they trust me so Im understanding about it

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>>18701345
I won't but somebody else might, I'd recommend waiting a bit longer. Take care

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"advice" means more like a guidance. Like "what would you do in this situation?" Try request forums.

Also there's a reason they make you to do it.