How come tsunderes turn completely submissive during sex? You'd think someone acting bossy in real life would try to have their way in sexual relationships.
That's why ojou-samas are better than tsunderes.
their tsuntsun exterior is a defense for their soft interior. they dont act bossy just for fun or out of malice, its because they are inwardly weak and insecure, particularly about their feelings. which is their appeal; it makes them more feminine.