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Why did she marry other guy?
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The show was a fucking snoozefest with pretty animation.\


>nothing happens the movie
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>>119997016
Go watch transformers or something.
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>>119997054
>hurrr nothign happens in the entire movie except times skips with him growing up with a boring monologue

>Eh u must have add go watch transfomers
There's a middle ground here

And that ground is this movie is tryhard bullshit
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>>119997054
Not to mention
>main girl forgets him and marries someone else
>He never even notices the 2nd girl that has a crush on him in the time skip
>2nd girl was actually better

If you want closure think of it as fucking justice, nobody got an idyllic ending, hooray. Realistic aesthetic achieved GG.
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>>119996505
Why again they didn't end up together at the end?

Some bullshit like "oh I live here now we can't be together even though there is a train that directly connects our two distant cities?" or some other bullshit?
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>>119997131
Pretty much, they moved "far" away, which in Japan means not far away at all because it's a country the size of California. I think the point is though people grow apart when not near each other.
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>>119996505
the dude was creepy as fuck, he was still in love with some girl he has not seen in like more than 10 years?
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>>119997131
Because when they parted at the train at the end of part 1, she moved on. She had married someone else at the end you know.
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>>119997176
What's wrong with that? That's how love works.
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>>119997227
No, that's how a stalker works.
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>>119997198
Why they broke up?
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People still don't get the title is a metaphor for people growing distant.
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cuckslut
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He hadn't talked to her in years. There was no longer a connection between them. Did you even watch the movie?
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>>119997256
>>119997176
back2reddit
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>>119997277
Distance broke them up. They grew apart. A lot of relationships, be it with people you love or friends or sometimes even parents, are prone to this if you spend too much time apart.

He clinged on to the memories of her, while she realized that they couldn't be together, and moved on.
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>>119997330
They probably never will. Fuck this movie is painful everytime though.
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>>119997227
eh not really, if you are in love with a person you haven't seen for that long you are probably insane.
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>>119997256
A stalker wouldn't be in love
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tell me about lost love /a/
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>>119997131
>>119997161
The movie is in 3 parts: 1st is about physical distance, 2nd emotional distance, and 3rd temporal distance
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>>119997432
Maybe my love is just stronger than a weak love like yours
>love so weakly that you need to see them everyday to keep loving someone
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>>119997416
I watch it every New Years
alone
sage for blog
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itt: a cuck anime.

>>119997330
there is no metaphor. the story is about a beta who let himself become a cuck like most of /a/.
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>>119997477
How could I tell if I don't even?
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>>119997520
That is how relationships work you moron.

>love so weakly that you need to see them everyday to keep loving someone

No that is called stalking when they have pretty much said no already.
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>>119997542
>average murrican level of intelligence
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>>119997477
I have never been in love
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>>119997542
>cuck
Can this word be banished forever?

Being a cuck is a fetish. Sexually.
Still being in love with a girl is not.
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>>119997593
>implying I'm an amerikunt

get wrecked you jap
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>>119997593
At least I'm not a fucking beta
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>>119997593
>sitting through a boring 90 minute monologue masquerading as a movie

Yeah, ur so smart xd
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>>119997477
what is love?
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>>119997615
It's basically a movie for people that want to get ntred/cucked.
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>>119997330
I get it, i just didn't give a fuck because the characters were bland and forgettable and their problems were petty
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Why didn't he just call her on a cellphone or email her?

Take train to go see her on holiday?

What a retard
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>>119997625
>not beta
>on /a/
yeah nice try, faggot.
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>>119997615
That's only in the case of cuckolds who put themselves in that position willingly.

That said, I don't see any form of cuckolding in 5cmps, considering he literally hadn't talked to that woman in years for starters.
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>>119997648
Because he was a moron who had given up from the start. If he had tried, the relationship might have worked. But he never tried and all he did was act like a creep for her with the stupid text message shit (kinda like Goto). All the movie proves is that Japanese men have no backbone.
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>>119997615
Actually anon, yes, through the modern miracle that is filtering, the word cuck can in fact be banished forever.
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>>119997714
He let himself be cuckolded. They clearly had feelings for one another and he didn't do anything with it.
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Girl was a dumb whore that refused to break it off properly. Had she done so mc-kun would've been a lot less fucked up.
She just had to write one fucking letter. One.
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>>119996505
The title is also a metaphor for /a/nons drifting away from /a/. That guy you flirted with in a thread 2 days ago might not even come here anymore.
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>>119997477
>me and guy have obvious feelings for each other
>both awkward as fuck
>confident guy approaches me
>still want awkward guy
>confident guy is everything I wanted
>still want awkward guy
>awkward guy becomes so awkward he starts ignoring me
>cry because I can't deal with love triangles
>this is nothing like my shoujo manga
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>>119997584
It's only stalking if I'm following/watching them.

I can still love them without doing that
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>>119997793
How can he be cuckolded by someone who he doesn't even see? Hell, he doesn't even know that she married someone else.
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>>119997823
>I can still love them without doing that
still creepy as fuck if you do it for ten years
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>>119996505
Good movie. He got closure and was finally able to move on.

People like to ignore he was smiling in the end.
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>>119997477
It's been three years. Of course I'm not over it I was going to marry her. I didn't even go to her funeral. I'm going to murder that drunk driver /a/ I swear to fucking god. I've been planning it since I hear the news. I will get away with it.
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>>119996505
Best anime film i've watched.
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>>119997856
No my ability to love is just more powerful than someone like you
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>>119997860
>>119997900
1/10

Not cool dude.
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>>119997016
actually the animation and character design is amateur at best. it's the backgrounds and post work that are pretty.

the characters really clash on the gorgeous bg work.
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>ctrl f cuck
>11 results
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>>119997928
>nothing in life is good to me, im jaded as fuck
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>>119997811
how do you know if awkward guy had feelings for you if he never confessed
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>>119997888
Y-you're not supposed to post actual sad shit like this. ;_;
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>>119997752
Kill yourself.
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>>119997918
you haven's seen her for years she might not be the same person was then
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>>119997928
Not alot of films can make you feel absolutely nothing after you finished watching it, in a good way.
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>>119997928
Why did you include my post?
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>>119997648

More like why didn't he give up on her and go for the surfer girl who obviously wanted his dick.
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>>119997398

>He clinged on to the memories of her, while she realized that they couldn't be together, and moved on.

My life.
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>>119997954
At first I didn't know who he was, but he approached me first. We've been texting for over a year and have made plenty of implications. He blushes just sitting near me, our legs accidentally touch under the table. We're just full of missed opportunities.


>everyone tells me how I should choose confident guy, because he's better-looking and not a beta faggot
>still want awkward guy
>awkward guy is still awkwardly avoiding me the more obvious it gets that he has feelings for me
>confident guy keeps approaching me
>start hanging out with confident guy
>cry all week because I think I'm developing feelings for confident guy
>awkward guy is the one that got a way
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>>119998090
He could be doing that at the end of the movie.
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>>119998090
You'd fuck anything that moves, wouldn't you?
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>>119997918
That doesn't make it not creepy
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>>119998147
do you move anon? :3
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>>119997801
how long is this. fuck you he doesn't have a dad
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>>119996505
holy shit OP this movie is terrible
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>>119998197
He's black, what did you think?
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>>119998029
Gotta agree with his dude. You probably love the "her" in your head rather than the real her. I mean really even if she compulsively used social media to blog about her life the picture paint by that still isn't her
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>>119997856
No, you're wrong and you have a warped view of what love is.

You can love someone your whole fucking life and never get to see them again.

Just stop posting, it's getting ridiculous.
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>>119997076
>calling a movie tryhard
you must be new here
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I can't relate to this move as I've never even had a relationship to forget about.
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>>119998153
You have brain problems.
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>>119998260
I've never had one either, but it made me rage. Both of them never actually bothered to put in any effort.
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>>119997445
But a Stalker was in the story they originated from.
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>>119997801
It took me a while but I get this gif now.
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>>119998318
Was in love I meant I just realized how ambiguous that was.
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>>119998221
He makes the average /a/non look like a normal person.
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>>119998299
When this sort of stuff happens you hold onto hope that the other person still longs for you, but you fear that trying to contact them yourself will result in your worst fears, that the other person doesn't have feelings for you anymore and that time has pushed you two apart too much. So you cling to hope that the other person will be the one to contact you.
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>>119996505
I felt bad for him when he lost that huge ass letter.

Also, MC could have tried to stop the wedding.

Girl was just engaged and plenty of couples have gotten cold feet before getting married.

MC could have tried winning back his first love.
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>>119996505

1- Her future husband was at the right place at the right time (Or is Alpha). Don't know exactly how because the film doesn't show him
2- MC is Beta pussy. Didn't even have the guts to be rejected like a man. Beta's doesn't have any sympathy from me, period.

There you go.
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This movie has a good theme, but the rise of social media a few years later kinda dampened the impact of its message.
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Tragic or sad endings are more memorable than "And they lived happily after"
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>>119997477
>be 18
>still a horny faggot
>tell random girl from other class "hey from now on your my gf"
>o-ok
>vacation happened
>"hey I love you" everyday on fb
>school resumes
>lunch
>"hey wanna go out on a date?" everyday
>o-ok (oh shit she's getting clingy)
>ignores her advances on me the next day
>she went full madman on me in fb everyday since ignoring her in school
>graduation
>she broke up with me
Thanks for reading my blog!
yandere esque kind of girls in real life is bad news kids
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>>119998524
Nah that's gay shit right there.
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>>119998577
Yandere girls work if you yourself is also yandere.
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Prefer the manga ending.
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>>119996505
Because MC had autism.
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>>119998675
Explain captain
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>>119997477
All of mine are unrequited.
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>>119998713
Dat qt cut.
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>>119998134
Wow, what a slut. Just fucking saw something to the guy.
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>>119998796
We can never be pleased huh. If she was too forward she'd be a slut if she doesn't do anything she's a dumb slut.
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>>119998134
So why didn't you make the move?
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>>119998796

Not slut. Just how women generally work.

My first advice is, don't listen to women. Seriously. They don't even know what they want.
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>>119998713

For those that require explanation: The last chapter is a story about his other childhood friend who is also unable to move on. She sort of does. She even considers a marriage proposal. But she decides to go to Tokyo one last time. As she sits in a park alone, contemplating her past with MC and her need to let go, someone walks into her field of view

We as an audience, are encouraged to think it's MC, who just gave up on her on >>119996505
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What happens next? We don't know. But we can hope for something good to come from this.
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>>119998796
I did everything I could really, I even went to the Prof to have us be in the same group for a group project, maybe that was just too subtle on my part. I was loyal to him the whole 6 months when I was away to foreign countries with tons of guys hitting on me. I asked him to hang out with me, but he was busy.
;_;
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This is why normalfag anime is shit. Too much blogshit.
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>>119997477
Baby don't hurt me.
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>>119998939
Good advice.
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>>119998952
K.
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>>119998952
How hard is it to just take the guy aside one day and say, "I'm into you; want to go out?"

Real fucking easy.
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>>119998952
I know that somewhere out there there must be others like you. I'm so sorry.
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>>119997477
>Fall in love with 10/10 qt girl.
>She has some minimum powerlevel requirement.
>Spend lot of time talking together.
>Discover that she has a boyfriend and is simply the "nice girl" type so everything I got from her until now didn't mean that she saw me that way.

This happened two fucking times. Worst feeling ever.
Doesn't matter if I become a wizard at this point, Im too tired for this shit.

Thinking about it, I was probably infatuated because I was still awkward around girls, now Im much more comfortable and everything is alright.
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>>119998952
>even went to the Prof to have us be in the same group for a group project
>loyal for 6 months
>acting as if this a great feat
>I did everything I could except directly telling him
Kek
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>>119999032
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>>119999086
>119999086
I watched that anime like 2 days ago and already forgot like everything that happened, fucking garbage show.
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>wow I luv u so much

Can't stand your pretentious normalfag shit.
Please go and stay go. All of you.
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>>119998221
He's that is british though.
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>>119999237
>has garbage memory
>blames it on the show
Really though, the LNs are better
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>>119999243

what's this taste? I think it's the taste of beta pussy.
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>>119998675
Isn't the manga ending just an epilogue which adds on to the movie ending?
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>Get a crush on a 7/10 qt girl
>She likes reading, has crazy sexhair and is pure as anything
>She's a bit of a feminist but nothing serious
>Hope for more chance encounters but we don't share classes, social circles or anything like that
>Spend more time drinking, watching anime and playing games
>Get drunk sometimes and then argue with her about feminism
>Don't think she returns any of my feelings so resign myself to giving up
>She bakes me a cake on my birthday, randomly hugs me all the time, approaches me looking all hopeful whenever I'm alone - I notice none of it
>One time she even jumped on me calling my name and I hugged her back so hard that the spaghetti falls and she hurts her back
>I don't do anything else about it all year and she goes for a year abroad
>I eventually leave to return home

That was two years ago, I'm now a NEET living in my parent's attic
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>>119999503

It's an extra chapter that deals with MC's middle school friend who had her unrequited love for him. It's set 10 years later from the time they parted ways and like the MC, she is also stuck in time, unable to move on. Without spoiling it, she finally confronts her feelings head on and decides to do something about it only to find resolution to her inner turmoil just short of seeing MC. And then we're supposed to believe she DOES see him. It's an ambiguous ending that makes you hope something good is in store for both of them, now that they are finally at peace with their past.

I would call it a side-story than an epilogue. This is Kanae's story, not the MCs.
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>>119997016
I kinda like that literally nothing happened.
The thing that glued it together was the montage at the end and the train passing.

But really, it should be obvious that there actually is something happening.

>>119997176
Some people don't move on in life.
He clinged to a promise that would never work until it broke him.
In the manga, he dates the surfer girl.

Really, the movie was really well done.
First part shows the couple going to near impossible length just to be together for a bit and knowing it will never last. Making the viewer understand how long and shit it is by not skipping to when they get together.

Then it shows the surfer girl who grows affectionate towards the guy but he doesn't notice since he's still living in the past, unable to see what is around him.

And then he breaks and the final scene is the girl he loved passing where they used to meet.
It's well symbolised since when the train passes, it cuts off the relationship he held with her. Which is why he is happy. This is also why she vanishes./

I honestly don't see how anyone can hate this movie.
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>>119999650
>First part shows the couple going to near impossible length just to be together for a bit and knowing it will never last. Making the viewer understand how long and shit it is by not skipping to when they get together.
That's what breaks this movie for me. Why is it so impossible?
I've never been in a relationship myself, but I've known people who've been in steady relationships even across different countries.
If this was some kind of period piece set when there was no modern technology, I could understand.
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Funny that I watched some 3DPD Korean drama and the story is almost the same as 5cm where the hero went abroad for a long time and but he and the heroine got together in the end.
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>>119999711
Dude, people break up all the time due to many circumstances, the least of them being falling out of love. It's a fact of life. How we deal with those unresolved feelings and move on with out own lives is what makes better for it.
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>>119999604
Sums up /a/ pretty well.
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>>119999782
Gook > jap.
Deal with it japs.
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>>119999785
I understand that. But I'm talking about the situation before they actually broke up. It's as if they had given up before they even began. They made no attempts to at least keep in contact.

I still like this movie. But this bothers me quite a bit.
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>>119998724
Captain? Are you in 9gag or something?
She's the surfer girl, She finally meet Takaki-kun after 10 years. That reunion happen after last train scene, which didn't shown in the movie...
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>>119999921
Again, this happens an awful lot, especially when you're young and partially dependent on others. We as an audience can see how much they meant to each other, long after they had separated. But the reality is that once they drifted apart, they were completely unable to verify the feelings of each other and as time went on, the less chance of them going back together; life gets in the way. Not everyone is keen on licking an open wound either. WHy torture yourself knowing someone that means SO much to you is so far away as to be wholly out of reach? That's just torture, not romance. But if you are going to drift apart, you have to be ready to move on as well. But neither one did for a very, very long time.

I've seen this happen many times. There is one guy at the office who is still pining about his first girlfriend 16 YEARS after they last met. He still maintains he's not ready to see other people yet. This shit happens all the time.
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>>119999650
>I honestly don't see how anyone can hate this movie.

Its an anti-dopamine movie. Never works for ADHD
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>>119999711
>I've never been in a relationship myself.

If you don't, then you're supposing it's easy, it is not. The couple need to have a great deal of perseverance to go thought a long distance relationship. (Both of them, not just one)

It can happen many variables in the process when the couple it not actively seeing each other on a regular basis. Most common are:

-They'll meet new people (Some, that can mess with the relationship)
-They'll grow older apart (This is more of a big deal then people think)
-The relationship will grow cold (No direct contact, just phones or skype)

If you move from one state (Or province) to another is already a big deal. Countries is already big enough of a problem. I'm not saying is impossible, but it's pretty difficult.

As people from /fit/ say. If you're not there, banging your girl/guy at least 1-3 times a week. The potential of break up/cheating grows.

PS: Yes, i cross-board /fit/ and /a/.
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>>119999650
>I honestly don't see how anyone can hate this movie.
It's faux-deep and cliche.
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>>120000197
You mean Amerilards.
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>>120000260
>girl/guy
Why is fit so gay
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>>120000285
How so?
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>>120000260
>cross-board /fit/ and /a/.
Are you swole?
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>tfw I have never been in a relationship and have never once been in the concept of "love"
>tfw I could not relate to this movie because I don't know of love.
I have fantasied about it being with someone but my mind jumps between multiple things in a short space of time. Love, family, perfect job, friends and then back to wanting to be alone to do my own thing. I can't into love because I don't know it. How can I relate to something that I have no prior knowledge of? What is love?
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>>120000260
If it's so difficult, then why the hell not make a clean break? They do neither in this.
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>>119997648
All 3 explained in the movie.
Part 1 takes place in 1992. Did you have a cellphone or computer back then?

He moves to tanegishima in part 2. He cant just take a train. Theyre on 2 different landmasses.

The movie explains why mail between the 2 didnt last but you were too dense to understand any of that so i wont bother explaining
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>>119998090
Didnt that happen in the manga version?
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>>119998090
>That scene where biker/surfer girl tries to confess and cries.
Fuck me that hurt watching that play out.
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>>120000381
Because for some people, it's not that easy. They didn't fall out of love or broke up; life just got in the way. And neither one could settle or reconcile those feelings anymore. The problem there, as I see it, is that they drifted apart without emotionally ending it in their hearts. Those lingering emotions were not overridden by stronger and newer feelings of affection toward someone new. For some people they can't just switch off those emotions instantly.
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The guy didn't move on, but doesn't love her anymore.

The girl moved on, but still loves him.

If you didn't understand this you're probably autistic.
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>>120000542
It still hurts after so many years, anon.
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>>120000602
>married
>still loves him
Slut.
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>>120000159
True, because it's happen to me
First love is always special, and she is my childhood friend too, it's 80% similar to this anime actually

Not even joking
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>>119996505
Why didn't he marry surfergirl?
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>>119998090
Because he was in love with another girl?

I guess it's hard to make for an anime board full of virgins who have never been in a relationship with a woman to empathize with a hard case of unrequited love, but jesus christ at least try.

why didnt he fuck delicious brown?!? why did he still care about the first girl? Help I'm an infant child who has never had any relationships with people and im struggling to understand a story about relationships!
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>>120000552
>I have no problem cutting off all contacts with former friends, family and even crushes.
>Routinely keeping people at arms length while feeding them lies and half truths as I slowly get to know them and their intentions
>tfw the day I cut them off comes as a huge relief because everything that I had said to them prior won't matter because it was all false information and the person they thought they knew was actually not real.
>tfw I have done this so many times that I have had to pen down the names, addresses and contact details of every single one so I can learn their patterns and avoid them in the near future.
Its not that hard anon sure if you invest yourself in another it will be hard to cut off contact. You feed them false info and it won't hurt as much when you have to break the chains that bind you to them.
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>>120000718
>who have never been in a relationship with a woman
>a hard case of unrequited love
Why would these two be mutually exclusive? If anything, the latter actively gets in the way of the former.
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>>119997477
I fucked up my first love by over-rationalizing when my gf asked me a serious question.

She asked 'what do you like about me?' and I couldn't answer.
I tried to think of a good answer but had nothing. She gave me shit because she said anyone should easily answer that and I couldn't think of anything. I told her I'd give her a good answer by the next day and tried to think of something good to tell her.

I thought about it later that night and came to the conclusion that I didn't know why I loved her or even liked her.
That made me think that the only thing that I liked about her was that she made me happy. And that meant that I was happy that she was with me.
But I twisted that and saw it as thought I only liked her because she was with me. She loved me and I like that she loved me. I loved that she loved me more than I actually loved her since I couldn't figure out why I even liked her.
And the only thing I loved was that she payed attention to me, would there be a difference between her paying attention to me compared to some girl X who would do the same? Could I see a difference? I didn't see any.
I mean, if it wasn't her but some other girl, how can it be love if it wasn't sacred?
How can I say I love her if I don't know why and can easily say I can love someone else so long as they love me in return? As if that was all that mattered.

I concluded that love was selfish and that I didn't actually love her, only that she loved me and that I loved that she was mine.
And I couldn't handle that it wasn't this magical naive idealistic idea of love that I had when I thought I was in love.

Told her the next day that I wanted to break up and got shit from her because I didn't know how to explain myself.

Looking back on it, I feel like a fucking idiot and wish I could slap myself.
If it wasn't retarded, it might have turned into something else, who knows.
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>>120000753
I mean ANY kind of relationship. Friendship, or otherwise.
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>>120000773
Subscribed
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>>120000797
+1
Don't forget to thumbs up.
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>>120000728
At the risk of blogging (and let's face it - we all pretty much are at this point), then you haven't experienced love at its utmost. Loving someone is accepting them so fully that you make yourself completely vulnerable to them. There is no part of you that quarantines itself from that emotion. That's why it hurts so bad when it ends in a bad note and why people are unable to move on.
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>>120000728
>tfw you lie so much that the lies become truth and the truth becomes lies.
>tfw you just can't tell the difference between the two anymore because you have done it for so long.
Its a blessing and a curse.
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>>120000718
What a load of crap.

The MC at that point IS a virgin who had never been in a true relationship and therefore mourns after his first childhood love. If anything moving on and banging the hot brown chick would be the normalfag solution.
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>>120000683
He did in the manga... not until married actually
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>5cmps thread
It is that time again, I see. The time where /a/nons prove they're all closet normalfags.
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>>120000829
Sucks that love requires you to be retarded
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>>119999711
yeah at this time there is NO facebook ,twister,skype,ONLY phone and letter.
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>>120000829
>Loving someone is accepting them so fully that you make yourself completely vulnerable to them
Well there in lies your problems. You invest yourself fully in another and blows up you lose all that in the process. Feed them lies and fabrications and the effects lessen. You can still love them for who they are to certain extend but they will love you for you tell them. In a way you retain full control over your past, present and future and nothing can backfire if you have taken the necessary precautions. Opening yourself fully to another person is dangerous and you are just asking to be exploited if you choose to do so. A good lie is better then a bad truth, honesty is never the best policy.
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>>119997477

>last day of our final year of grad school
>about to drive two of my friends home after their Desginated driver got wasted
>my female friend is behind me and tries to embrace me from behind
>Took a step forward to put on my shoes and accidentally dodge her hug

She never really spoke to me much again after that day. Didn't even know about it until months later when the other friend I drove home brought it up randomly and said I was such a heart breaker
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>>120000938
>no twister
what fun games did people play at parties then?
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>>120000941
I fully accept your opinion anon and I can see where you're coming from. Still, I maintain you have not yet experienced love at its utmost and even though it can hurt so bad when it goes to shit, the opposite is also absolutely and undeniably true - nothing you've experienced can ever compare to meeting someone that accepts you so completely for who you really are and open him/herself to you in the same way. There is really no approximation to it.
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>>120000938
The movie was released in 2007.
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>>120000938
>*twitter
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>>120001034
It is truly a wonder how you can believe someone truly accepts everything about you fully
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>>120001037
The final part takes place in 2007 (it actually takes place on the movies release date) part 3 was 10 years after p2. P2 was 5 years after p1. 2007-15=1992

We done?
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>>120001075
And it's truly sad that you can't.
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>>119997477
26 years old. I have s job and a car, don't live with my parents, shower daily, have a nice haircut and my clothes aren't bad either. A still unkissed virgin. I wasn't like that until like 22 though and at that point the concept of a relationship just got too weird. I even go to the gym 3-4 times per week and had 2 girls after me at work but I turned both of them down. Another girl texted me on New Years eve that I don't even know but I didn't even reply.
I will forever stay alone at this point. Every year the concept of a relationship just gets weirder.
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>>120001037
time in movie from 90s to 2008
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>>120001034
Must be a nice world that you live in. People do not accept you for what you are but what you can offer to them. The world is a place of winners and losers no inbetweens. You don't accept someone for what they are on the basis of because you can. You conduct yourself in such away you will be exploited sooner or later. I am surprised people like you still exist in this world.
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>>120001117
Actually, that stance on life lowers the opportunities for sadness actually
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>>120001153
I'm not saying it works for the best all the time or even most of the time; you strike out and get hurt more often than not. That's just how it is. But even so, you still do it and you go out there and find someone new and if it feels right, you open up and see where it goes. Because that chance of finding someone who can accept you for who you are at that point in time (not talking about the future; that's a different story) is a unique and irreplaceable experience. For what its worth, I've chased that feeling for almost 12 years before I found it again. You have to be in the right frame of mind to accept it however.
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>>120001366
You might never be sad, but at the same time, you're never really happy either. You're only experiencing a very limited spectrum of emotions, all muted. If you can live with that, then that's up to you. Problem is that you're not always in control of your own emotions. There will come a time that it will hit you and it will shake you to your foundations and make you reevaluate the way you've been living thus far and realise that you're only half-living if you stay the way you had been.

(holy shit - we're actually doing it - we're fucking blogging. I'm kinda hating myself right now)
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>>120001123
My wife was an unkissed virgin until the age of 29.

Just sayin'
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>>119999110

Do everyone a favor, including you, and go confess to him directly.
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They don't get together, I'm fine with that.

But why is the dude so beta that he fucks up his job while not letting go of this girl
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